The Regulated Mother Membership
Keep growing your capacity to feel calmer, more capable, and at peace with your PDA or high-needs child — and with your life.
Because becoming a more regulated parent takes time to unwind the deep conditioning and survival patterns that keep your nervous system in reaction. When you have support, safety, and belonging, the healing unfolds with more ease and trust — allowing the changes to deepen, take root, and become embodied for lasting transformation.
đź—“ Live every other Wednesday at 1 PM EST (New York time)
✨ Starting Wednesday, March 4
(Regular $47 / month — your founding rate never increases while you remain a member)
WHY THIS MEMBERSHIP EXISTS
You’ve done the work inside The Regulation Rebuild — you’ve learned, practiced, and begun to feel what regulation can be.
But real, lasting nervous system healing takes time, repetition, and community.
We’re not just learning tools — we’re de-programming survival patterns and re-wiring conditioning that lives deep in the body.
Ongoing support helps those changes happen faster, deeper, and more durably so they stick — even in the hardest moments of parenting.
WHAT YOU GET INSIDE
Stay Consistent with Bi-Weekly Live Calls
Every other Wednesday @ 1 PM EST, we meet for 60-90 minutes.
Each call begins with a guided regulating practice and flows into Q&A + spot coaching so you can apply these tools in real life.
Personalized Support & Integration
Bring your real-time challenges. Receive compassionate guidance to gain deeper awareness of your nervous system state and how to help your triggers feel safe so you can feel more calm and at peace in your daily life.
Safe Community & Replays
You’re not alone anymore.
You’ll be surrounded by mothers who get it — all supporting one another through this journey.
Can’t join live? Replays are available inside the membership platform, you can submit your questions in advance to get answered, and you will have a private community space to share reflections between calls and ask questions.
Join as a Founding Member – $39 / month🗓 Doors open Wednesday, March 4 at 1 PM EST / New York time
YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF...
You loved The Regulation Rebuild and want more time to anchor and embody what you’ve learned.
You crave connection with others who understand the intensity of raising a hypersensitive or PDA child.
You’ve felt alone on this path and long for a place where you truly belong — because belonging itself is healing.
You want consistent guidance to unwind survival patterns (fight, flight, freeze, fawn, shutdown) with compassion.
WHY BELONGING MATTERS
So many mothers walk this path feeling isolated — wondering if anyone else understands the mix of love, exhaustion, and fear they carry every day.
In this membership, you’ll feel the relief of knowing:
You are not alone.
Your story belongs here.
And when your nervous system experiences safety in belonging, it begins to heal at a whole new level.Â
đź—“ Doors open Wednesday, March 4 at 1 PM EST / New York time
A NOTE FROM AFSHAN
I created The Regulated Mother Membership to give you the space, support, and connection you need to keep healing, keep growing, and keep remembering who you truly are.
It’s the space I wish I had when I was deep in my own trauma vortex—longing for others who understood what I was going through, who could remind me that we were in this together.
I’ve lived through years of an intense home environment with my PDA autistic child who struggles with anxiety and OCD, and who needs a strong sense of control to feel safe in life. During those years, I faced countless challenges with no safe space to share, no one to guide me in how to heal my reactions, or to help me feel at peace with my child and my life.
There were moments when healing my nervous system in that environment felt impossible. I wished so badly for someone to tell me, “You can do this. You can make it through.”
Someone who could meet me exactly where I was—with compassion and acceptance for the mother I was becoming.
That’s what I want to offer you here.
Every mother who works with me tells me she finally feels seen, heard, and validated. Her body exhales, her shoulders drop, and she feels a sense of relief—because she’s finally accepted for how she truly feels and what she’s living through. It’s a deeply regulating experience.
Seeing that transformation is what inspired me to create this space—for more mothers to feel that same sense of belonging, compassion, and hope.
Supporting you fills me with profound gratitude. You are some of the most courageous, devoted, and resilient mothers I’ve ever met—mothers willing to do the deeper work of healing for themselves and their children.
Afshan Tafler
đź—“ Doors open Wednesday, March 4 at 1 PM EST / New York time
MEMBERSHIP DETAILS
What Begins to Shift with Continued Support
Many mothers share that, over time, they begin to notice:
A growing capacity to stay calm and grounded during challenges
Quicker recovery after moments of dysregulation or rupture
Less self-blame and shame — and more compassion for themselves and their child
The deep relief of belonging in a space where they don’t have to explain themselves
A body that slowly learns to trust safety again
đź—“ Doors open Wednesday, March 4 at 1 PM EST / New York time
FAQs
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FINAL INVITE
Healing your nervous system — and rewiring generations of conditioning — is deep work.
You don’t have to do it alone.
Come be part of a community that sees you, supports you, and grows alongside you.
Because when mothers heal together, everyone in the family begins to thrive.
Join as a Founding Member – $39 / month🗓 Doors open Wednesday, March 4 at 1 PM EST / New York time
